Make peace your goal

At a certain point the light bulb (in your mind) should come on. Some things you used to do when you were younger you should not even want to do anymore. I hear too many "grown people" engaging in destructive behavior & calling it keeping it real. Why after 30 are we still holding grudges? Really you don't like someone cause of something they may have said or done 5 or 10 years ago? Really? We don't speak to folks cause of something we heard or thought someone may have said or done to us? Really? We still don't value each others time or contributions. What I am doing is not more important or of more value than what you may be doing and vice versa. Stop telling people you will do something only to not do it. Its better to not make a vow than to make one and not keep it. Stop worrying about people hating on you and worry about you not hating on someone else. Hate is usually hidden behind someone calling themselves being "constructive" or "helpful" Its a fine line so be careful you're not crossing that line. Its time for us to forgive, support, to love unconditionally. The bible tells us that we need people so this attitude of I am an island by myself and I don't need anyone or anybody is a false sense of security. Free yourself. Love somebody other than yourself. I finally felt love when I allowed myself to love. People have all these walls up and wonder why they are alone. The walls are so thick so high even Joshua would have trouble tearing them down. We need each other. Lord I pray that I never get to a point where I think I don't need you or nobody else. Keep me humble, happy, free to be me. I have forgiven people & I have been in need of forgiving. And its all good. God is the only Judge so you don't have to do his job. Make peace your ultimate goal. Make love a necessity. That it that's all my little two cents ... the world according to me :)